I got featured on the Punch

Sometime ago, someone asked me;

“Is it right for people to report their spouses to religious leaders?

I answered from my point of view as honestly as I could. That answer found its way into the punch newspapers

I would say it is wrong because it opens the door for a third party in the relationship. However, there are situations where it is advisable for a pastor or imam to step in.

Before a pastor or imam would interfere in a marital crisis, it means it is an issue that has been unresolved before then. The question is why were those issues there in the first place and why were they not dealt with.

The second thing is that sometimes people have to involve someone that their husband or wife can listen to. This is where a pastor or imam could come in, but it has to be done carefully.

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