Some Ladies want Superman but walk past Clark Kent everyday.
This is true but men too want Wonder Woman and walk past Diana everyday. The walking past isn't exactly the problem, its the mindset that alludes to the walking past.
It illustrates a shallowness and wrong value systems that translated into wrong expectations, wrong orientations, wrong priorities, wrong ideologies and finally wrong actions i.e the walking past. It signifies the need for an entire psychological overall to be aligned with whatever greatness that he/she may eventually hope to achieve.
It is a small action of walking past but signifies a much deeper problem that if not rooted out could terminate the same relationship if and when they eventually meet superman/ wonder woman.
You should be grateful that walked past and saved you the drama and heartache. However, if you are doing the walking past, you should be terrified as you dont know how many opportunities you have walked past and not know it yet.
You should be humble and open your spiritual eyes, sharpen your vision and lead you. As the saying goes, the superman we went to (sokoto state) to look for, was the clark kent in our backyard/ under our trousers all along. 🙂 (Adapted)
All the best.